Thursday, 20 March 2014

How To Stop Feeling Angry After She Cheated On You

By Jeraldine Hemongala


If you find out that your wife has been unfaithful to you, a number of things might go through your mind, some of them probably related to revenge. Then again you might feel depressed, or angry, or all of these emotions at once, which is entirely possible.

Anger is not only a powerful emotion, it is a very dangerous one as it can become destructive. Combined with revenge, the results can be devastating. When held in comparison with depression, anger is much, much harder to get rid of.

Here are some suggestions on how to handle your anger after being cheated on.

So how do you fix it? How do you get rid of the anger after being cheated on? The following are a few pieces of advice you will want to follow:

Men are notorious for being bad communicators. They have a tendency to keep things bottled up inside. If that is true of you, it's vital that you allow yourself to open up and let the anger out. It does the most damage when it is kept pent up inside.

2. This is one thing that every angry and depressed person should do regularly because the benefits cannot be emphasized enough. Exercise releases happy hormones that fight stress. It will help release all those pent up energy brewing inside that is contributing to your anger.

2. It might seem like a waste of time, but a depressed and angry person should do this on a regular basis as it benefits them greatly. Through exercise, positive hormones are released which will help to fight stress. In addition to that, your pent up energy will be released. Also, exercise will help you to feel better about yourself!

One of the biggest issues of discovering infidelity is a loss of self esteem. Why did they do it? Were you not good enough? By exercising you will get yourself in shape, raise your self esteem, and ultimately stop questioning yourself.

Take the lesson and forget what happened. It is easier said than done, but in time things will get easier. Take measures to forget it one day at a time. Distract yourself by being busy and just move on with your life.

4. Learn your lessons, and in time, things will become easier. There are many ways to distract yourself, and eventually, move on with your life.

Whether with or without her, you now have a chance at a fresh start. Use the lessons you've learned from the past to build a meaningful and happy future.




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