Is there a man that you feel is perfect is every way except that he doesn't know that you exist? Do you find him handsome, funny, fun to be around and you wish that he would ask you out? Have you thought of flirting with him but you're not sure what to do? How can you let him know that you're interested in him without being rejected? How can you attract this special guy without feeling like you're a stripper?
No matter if you're attractive or ugly, it is possible to attract the attention of any guy that you want. While you might think that men are only attracted to beautiful, slim women, this isn't necessarily true. True attraction and love are born in the heart and often go unexplained for most men. So, don't give up hope if you're not thin, young and in shape. It is always possible to date the kind of men that you dream of if you know a little bit about how a man feels love.
The first thing you can concentrate on to get his attention and make him notice you is your smile. We all look more pleasant when we smile at someone that we adore. Something truly glorious happens to us. Your face will have a glow to it and your eyes will sparkle when you look at him. This special kind of smile will convey your emotions silently to him and he will find it attractive.
If you're accustomed to smiling at everyone using the same kind of smile, take a look at yourself in the mirror when you smile as you're thinking about him. Think about him kissing you or holding you close. Close your eyes and let this scenario play out in your mind. Open your eyes and smile pleasantly as you look in the mirror and you will see how different this smile is. Smile this natural smile at him when he approaches you and it very well might stop him dead in his tracks. This will get his attention, for sure.
If you have known this guy for a period of time, there's a pretty good chance that he knows your style. He may already be accustomed to seeing you on a regular basis. He has an expectation or thought inside his mind about who you are. It could be that he already likes you but you want him to look at you differently. Since men are visual in nature, this means changing how you look. Dramatic changes aren't necessary. A few simple changes or trying a different style the next time he sees you should do the trick.
Let's say that you're a girl that always wears skirts and you have to dress up for work, try a different style. If you normally wear long skirts or dress pants, try wearing shorter skirt. Likewise, if you normally wear short skirts, try going with a longer style for a change. If he has always seen you dressed casually, try dressing up for a change. If you always wear your hair down, try wearing it back or up. If you always wear jeans, try a different style of jeans or go for a skirt. If you simply can't function in another other than jeans, add a pair of heels to our outfit and you have dressed up a pair of jeans in a way that will drive some men wild. Your goal or aim is to make him notice you and for him to see that something has changed about you. This will cause interest in him and he will become curious.
The next trick might sound a little daring but you can pull it off if you can manage to act casual about it. The next time you see him or talk to him, be sure to touch him. Make physical contact with him by touching his arm or shoulder or back. If he walks by you and says hello, just reach out and touch him ever so gently. This contact will send him a non-verbal message that you are interested in him without hugging him or grabbing him or even having to tell him that you find him attractive.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
Try some of these tricks and you will find that the man of your dreams will become more interested in you. He will seek you out and become more attracted to you no matter what you might look like or where your relationship stands today. Don't doubt yourself. Some of the most attractive women in the world are thought to be beautiful not because of how they look but because of some of the methods that you have learned here today. Make that man yours. Be brave and go out on a limb to get him interested in you the way that you want.
No matter if you're attractive or ugly, it is possible to attract the attention of any guy that you want. While you might think that men are only attracted to beautiful, slim women, this isn't necessarily true. True attraction and love are born in the heart and often go unexplained for most men. So, don't give up hope if you're not thin, young and in shape. It is always possible to date the kind of men that you dream of if you know a little bit about how a man feels love.
The first thing you can concentrate on to get his attention and make him notice you is your smile. We all look more pleasant when we smile at someone that we adore. Something truly glorious happens to us. Your face will have a glow to it and your eyes will sparkle when you look at him. This special kind of smile will convey your emotions silently to him and he will find it attractive.
If you're accustomed to smiling at everyone using the same kind of smile, take a look at yourself in the mirror when you smile as you're thinking about him. Think about him kissing you or holding you close. Close your eyes and let this scenario play out in your mind. Open your eyes and smile pleasantly as you look in the mirror and you will see how different this smile is. Smile this natural smile at him when he approaches you and it very well might stop him dead in his tracks. This will get his attention, for sure.
If you have known this guy for a period of time, there's a pretty good chance that he knows your style. He may already be accustomed to seeing you on a regular basis. He has an expectation or thought inside his mind about who you are. It could be that he already likes you but you want him to look at you differently. Since men are visual in nature, this means changing how you look. Dramatic changes aren't necessary. A few simple changes or trying a different style the next time he sees you should do the trick.
Let's say that you're a girl that always wears skirts and you have to dress up for work, try a different style. If you normally wear long skirts or dress pants, try wearing shorter skirt. Likewise, if you normally wear short skirts, try going with a longer style for a change. If he has always seen you dressed casually, try dressing up for a change. If you always wear your hair down, try wearing it back or up. If you always wear jeans, try a different style of jeans or go for a skirt. If you simply can't function in another other than jeans, add a pair of heels to our outfit and you have dressed up a pair of jeans in a way that will drive some men wild. Your goal or aim is to make him notice you and for him to see that something has changed about you. This will cause interest in him and he will become curious.
The next trick might sound a little daring but you can pull it off if you can manage to act casual about it. The next time you see him or talk to him, be sure to touch him. Make physical contact with him by touching his arm or shoulder or back. If he walks by you and says hello, just reach out and touch him ever so gently. This contact will send him a non-verbal message that you are interested in him without hugging him or grabbing him or even having to tell him that you find him attractive.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
Try some of these tricks and you will find that the man of your dreams will become more interested in you. He will seek you out and become more attracted to you no matter what you might look like or where your relationship stands today. Don't doubt yourself. Some of the most attractive women in the world are thought to be beautiful not because of how they look but because of some of the methods that you have learned here today. Make that man yours. Be brave and go out on a limb to get him interested in you the way that you want.
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