Saturday, 12 October 2013

How To Please Your Man - Ways To Keep Him Happy

By Gerda Worth


There is only one golden rule when it comes to learning how to please your man: anything that you do for him should make both of you happy. If what he wants and needs is something that hurts or harms you then you're not in a healthy relationship. But if what makes him happy makes you happy as well then both of you are on the right track.
[How To Please Your Man]


It's been said time and again: if you want to know how to please your man, you've got to stop smothering him. Give him space, time to relax away from you and the kids or other responsibilities, and understand that men tend to unwind in different ways than women.

For some reason, many women tend to think that their opinions are important, while those of their man can be scoffed at. Respecting your guy and letting him be an individual is beyond important.

All relationships must be based on trust and as a result, you must trust your man. If you can't get a hold of him for an afternoon, don't immediately assume the worst. Chances are he was having a busy day at work and couldn't call you back. In addition, if you don't trust him, you run the risk of hurting his self-esteem and making you look like you are nagging all the time.

That doesn't mean you can't please your man's appetite, though. You could instead go out of your way to buy his favorite food and surprise him with a breakfast in bed or a romantic candlelit dinner in your living room. It's the thought that counts.This is the most important tip of all. Nagging won't solve anything so avoid doing it at all costs!Rather, try to be mature (and quiet) on how you handle your fights, and your guy will love you all the more for it. Only a rare woman has the ability to control the instinctive urge to nag and all guys know this.

Every guy loves to come home to the smell of fresh cookies or a home-cooked meal. You're a modern woman. You don't have to fight for independence. Your man will love the fact you've taken the time to be a little bit traditional.

Understanding male psychology can be tricky. What do men want, anyway? They often don't seem to care about the things that make us women happy, and unless we can read minds, which most of us can't then we've usually got no idea what makes those guys tick!If this is the way you think, then you need to change your thinking! Men really do want and need some of the exact same things that we women want and need. How to please your man? Provide him with plenty of love and attention each day. Treat him as you would like to be treated. Show him respect, and give him little gifts whenever you get the opportunity.

How to please your man? Spend valuable time reconnecting in private. Get a babysitter and a hotel room if you have to - but be sure you make time in your schedule for intimacy!

Nobody wants to be controlled. Do you whine and pester your guy? Do you nag him about everything under the sun? Stop now, before your problems get any worse. Take it a step further and come up with a code word for your guy to use any time he notices that you're nagging. When he uses it, stop and apologize.

Third, listen to him and give him complete attention. Men are not shy in what they want. As long as it is within your comfort level, do what he wants. Vocalize your adoration for his sexual qualities. Your already putting him at the center of the universe by giving him a blow job, you might as well inflate his ego more. Once again, this can also help you get into the proper mindset for pleasing your man.Lastly, be sure to use variety when pleasing your partner. Experiment with touching his erogenous zones while giving oral. Try using your hand or hands while performing too. Try going deep if you can and move back-and-forth from gentle to fast. Don't take forever though, men can easily become impatient if your romance is taking too long.




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