Wednesday 1 May 2013

Three Great Ways to Add Kink to Your Relationship

By Nick Daly


Are you single and looking to try something wild and different with your next partner? Or are you in a relationship that has lost its spark and want to add something new to the private time you spend with your other half? Why not try some of these top tips in your love life and see what you can unleash.

Using props and costumes does not have to make you feel like you're in a cheap porno; there are many high quality products out there to help bring your fantasies to reality, without any PVC in sight! Role-playing has been a popular practice among couples for many years and it is a great way to boost confidence as it gives the couple the chance to throw themselves into character, allowing for behaviour that is unusual and different from how they would normally act. You can also take it as seriously or as light-heartedly as you wish. Doctors and nurses or teacher and schoolgirl/boy are classic roles to choose but you can be as imaginative as you like with it. Perhaps choose a period in time you find sexual and erotic, for instance an Anthony and Cleopatra theme could be flamboyant and sexy or something a little more risqu like prison guard and prisoner could be interesting.

It may seem a little drastic to those who aren't familiar to it, but bondage does not necessarily have to be a frightening or unnerving practice and can actually be really fun and naughty if that's what you like. For those starting out you can get fluffy handcuffs and soft silk ribbons to tie, which will be something gentle and romantic. For the more experimental customer, there are hundreds of toys, restraints, styles and materials to buy and it can be a lot of fun for people who are comfortable being slightly submissive. This can also be a great segue from or into role-playing and the use of costumes and characters.

It may seem a little far fetched at first, but bringing food from the kitchen into the bedroom is a fun and fanciful way to add some light-hearted excitement to your sex life. We all know how much of a physical reaction you can get from eating good food, so combining some carefully chosen products with your gorgeous partners body can be really fun. There are the old clichs such as strawberries and whipped cream, also chocolate sauce is both delicious and a scientifically proven aphrodisiac! If you are a bit nervous of getting into the other two points on our list of things to try, starting with something like this is a really easy way to start adding more daring things to your love life.

Start with something light and see if you enjoy it, then you and your partner can discuss perhaps trying other more exciting ways of discovering each other. It may be a bit nerve-wracking at first and you will be full of giggles and butterflies but once you are able to lower your inhibitions and let go, you will be surprised at how you can let loose.




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