Monday, 13 May 2013

How To Avoid Getting The Friend Zone Meme

By Robert Jefferson


The worst thing a woman can do to a man who has romantic feelings for her is to put him in the friend zone meme. This in essence spells doom on all hopes of the romantic feelings bearing any fruit with that particular lady. Men are also known to do this to ladies though it is not such a common occurrence. Since human beings are social beings, they have an inborn desire for companionship and love.

When a lady cannot see a man as more than a friend, it is usually as a result of something that the man has done or does on a regular basis. Men should strive to avoid these things, some of which will be mentioned here. This is the only way of ensuring that the romantic relationship has a chance of flourishing. What most men do not know is that women make up their minds on whether a particular man will be a peer or something more than that very quickly.

When a man has feelings for a woman and would like to get into a romantic relationship with her, he should make his intention known from the beginning. Many men make the mistake of not making this known to their potential partners. This makes the lady think that he only wants friendship from her. Once a woman cannot see a man as more than a peer, there is no way she will get into a romantic relationship with him, delay in making the romantic intentions known, drives the woman closer to seeing the man this way with each passing day.

A man will and should always be manly. When there is little distinction between a man and the female friends of his woman, there are high chances that he will not make it past friendship with the woman. If the man gossips with the woman about her friends, accompanies her for shopping trips to buy shoes and clothes, he is definitely on the right path to the friend zone.

This is not to say that the man should not talk about these friends. He should talk about them but not in depth as the women do with their friends. A man should also not always accompany the woman when she is going out to do female-oriented things such as shopping for her shoes, and so on. This is why the women have their friends.

The effect of this is that the lady will view the man more and more as a friend as opposed to a lover. In as much as it is important to give attention to the lady, it should be the right kind of attention which drives the lady into having romantic feelings as opposed to brotherly love.

For the women, it is not very difficult to avoid the friend zone. Women are known to play hard to get before they can agree to get into a relationship with a man. If a woman does this for too long, she risks being considered nothing more than a friend.

Men are known to lose interest quickly and if the woman takes too long to give in to her feelings, she might wake up to a friend zone meme. It is a bit easier for women to avoid this situation than it is for men.




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