Are you tired of being lonely and you want to know how to get a boyfriend? Getting a boyfriend is not like going to a car lot and picking out a new car. It's a little more difficult than that. Just like a new car, you have to know what kind of features you want in a guy and where does your ideal guy spend his time.
There are guys to get all over the place. You go to school with them; you work with them, and you may even do your laundry with Mr. Right at the laundry mat and don't even know it.
While talking to my already hitched friends and family members, here are 8 suggestions that they used to get their partners.
1) As stated earlier in this article, you have to be honest with yourself and know what type of guy you really want. If you have chosen the wrong guys in the past, you don't want to repeat the same mistakes. Before you begin your search for a guy, write down a list of ideal qualities you would like your new beau to have, such as a job, intelligence, motivation, and trustworthiness.
This is a critical step in finding the right guy because when you meet someone for the first time, you can get infatuated with and excited about that person but he could be the wrong one for you.
When you find someone you like and you are getting that heart-pounding feeling, get out your list of guy qualities you wrote down a month ago and make sure this new guy fits this list to a T.
If this big fish does not have at least 80% of the qualities you are searching for on your list, throw him back into the sea.
2) Before you jump into a new relationship, make sure you are over the old one first. You should resolve old disappointments and past hurts that happened with your old boyfriend.
The reason why you want to resolve or come to terms with any past grievances or hurts you have experienced in the past is because you want to give your new relationship a chance to flourish and grow. And it can't do this if it is stuck in poor soil.
3) Another popular technique that women use to get the guy she wants is to emphasize her best features and work on the ones that needs improvement.
You should emphasize the best physical and mental qualities about you. If you have a nice figure, where fitted clothes to bring out your best features. If you are very knowledgeable about a certain subject, talk about that.
By involving yourself in things that he enjoys and listening to him when he talks this helps to boost his self-confidence. This is a good thing to do in the beginning when you start dating. You are putting your best foot forward.
While you are actively listening to him talk, you will be amazed at what you can find out. People love to talk about themselves and in doing this; you will soon find out if this guy is a perfect match for you.
5) Have you considered dating guys where you work? I don't mean date someone from the same department but what about someone in a different department.
Colleges and universities are excellent places to find future husbands. If you attend a college, consider the guy that sits across from you or is in your study group. You never know, Mr. Right might be sitting right next to you and you don't even know it. Now you do!
6) Your best friends are also an excellent source in helping you find a mate. Sometimes your friends know you better than you do. So, get them involved and ask them if they know any single guys that might be right for you.
7) If you have found someone that you are already interested in, let your friends know about it or ask someone that you feel comfortable enough to confide in to discreetly let him know that you are interested.
8) Being a guy's secret admirer is another technique that some women have used to get a boyfriend. Send the guy you like some fragrant-scented notes with cute messages written on them or send him a masculine fruit basket. This guy will be elated and caught off guard by this. By the way, in your notes, drop subtle hints as to your identity.
There are guys to get all over the place. You go to school with them; you work with them, and you may even do your laundry with Mr. Right at the laundry mat and don't even know it.
While talking to my already hitched friends and family members, here are 8 suggestions that they used to get their partners.
1) As stated earlier in this article, you have to be honest with yourself and know what type of guy you really want. If you have chosen the wrong guys in the past, you don't want to repeat the same mistakes. Before you begin your search for a guy, write down a list of ideal qualities you would like your new beau to have, such as a job, intelligence, motivation, and trustworthiness.
This is a critical step in finding the right guy because when you meet someone for the first time, you can get infatuated with and excited about that person but he could be the wrong one for you.
When you find someone you like and you are getting that heart-pounding feeling, get out your list of guy qualities you wrote down a month ago and make sure this new guy fits this list to a T.
If this big fish does not have at least 80% of the qualities you are searching for on your list, throw him back into the sea.
2) Before you jump into a new relationship, make sure you are over the old one first. You should resolve old disappointments and past hurts that happened with your old boyfriend.
The reason why you want to resolve or come to terms with any past grievances or hurts you have experienced in the past is because you want to give your new relationship a chance to flourish and grow. And it can't do this if it is stuck in poor soil.
3) Another popular technique that women use to get the guy she wants is to emphasize her best features and work on the ones that needs improvement.
You should emphasize the best physical and mental qualities about you. If you have a nice figure, where fitted clothes to bring out your best features. If you are very knowledgeable about a certain subject, talk about that.
By involving yourself in things that he enjoys and listening to him when he talks this helps to boost his self-confidence. This is a good thing to do in the beginning when you start dating. You are putting your best foot forward.
While you are actively listening to him talk, you will be amazed at what you can find out. People love to talk about themselves and in doing this; you will soon find out if this guy is a perfect match for you.
5) Have you considered dating guys where you work? I don't mean date someone from the same department but what about someone in a different department.
Colleges and universities are excellent places to find future husbands. If you attend a college, consider the guy that sits across from you or is in your study group. You never know, Mr. Right might be sitting right next to you and you don't even know it. Now you do!
6) Your best friends are also an excellent source in helping you find a mate. Sometimes your friends know you better than you do. So, get them involved and ask them if they know any single guys that might be right for you.
7) If you have found someone that you are already interested in, let your friends know about it or ask someone that you feel comfortable enough to confide in to discreetly let him know that you are interested.
8) Being a guy's secret admirer is another technique that some women have used to get a boyfriend. Send the guy you like some fragrant-scented notes with cute messages written on them or send him a masculine fruit basket. This guy will be elated and caught off guard by this. By the way, in your notes, drop subtle hints as to your identity.
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