Thursday 26 July 2018

Trustworthy Environment In Fruitful Relationships

By Jeffrey Jones


Departing after wedding being in relationship for several years is the most unpleasant thing in existence. There are many reasons behind this. When marriages are arranged by parents we tend to choose a life partner who we do not love. This results in quarrel and disagreement at later stage. Marriage therapist has conducted extensive research to predict divorce warning signs.

When couples see a smile or hears beautiful words or feels the touch, the sensory organs report to the brain and it sends feedback to the heart about the feeling. This is how people fall in love. This grows and matures only on trust and respect. This is a law of attraction to give in abundance and getting back the same in return.

Culture plays a great role in protecting a marriage or a relationship. It would be better if a person falls in love with the partner in the same ethnicity so that it would be easy to adjust along. Most issues occur due to cultural indifferences. People marrying in different cultures like a rich and poor family find it difficult to cope as time passes.

Domestic violence is another important reason for the relationships to break. One of the couple might adjust a lot to maintain the bond in marriage. Only when the aggression or the torture starts people look for ending the relationship as a last resort. Understanding in relation should not be one way, it should be from both sides.

Children bring lot of positivity and happiness in the family. Parents must look at their wellbeing and interest. We must try to understand their core skill and take active participation in developing it. Tomorrow when these kids grow as adults they should be responsible citizens of the country.

Issues start erupting one by one and finally it can lead to violence and divorce. So it can be said that financial pressure is cited one of the big reasons for separation. People with more money can outsource their hard tasks to others and have a good and happy living where as a person with less income has to do the entire tedious household chores and life is not so happy.

Couples married at younger age can come in the prospective divorce list. People who have wedded early might think that exposure or experience received by them compared to others is less and want different things now. Even coping up with children at young age makes them irritable and tensed.

Counseling is usually done on behalf of court to make the couples aware of their acts and their after effects. The impact on their children and family, societal issues, adjusting with the feelings associated with divorce etc. The counseling also helps them to understand each others issues and gives an opportunity to fix problem leading to a good marital life.

When the couples feel that their relationship is not going smoothly they should sit together and work out solutions. One should listen to their partners concerns and should help the person by giving suggestions or ideas to sort it off. At the same time the other partner also need to convey personal feelings for getting into a mutual understanding.




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