Saturday 7 July 2018

Time To Grieve With Rabbi Funeral

By William Stewart


In Judaism there are set laws regarding mourning and burying the dead. A Rabbi funeral requires a qualified Rabbi to officiate when burying someone of this religion. It is a sad time when losing a loved one or close friend and it is believed and practiced that the sooner the burial takes place the better.

This is why Jews bury their dead very quickly so as not to cause more anguish than necessary to those left behind. Sometimes delays do happen especially should family members and close friends having to fly in for the ceremony. It is best to consult a Rabbi should this be the case so that he can advise on what is permissible in Jewish Law and what is not.

The total grieving period lasts up to eleven months where everyday those close to the deceased such as sons of a father that has passed away, says a prayer called Kadish. This is done three times a day until the eleven months has passed. This requires sons or worse enough fathers that have lost a child, to attend synagogue three times a day for morning, afternoon and evening prayers until the time has elapsed.

Apart from this one is encouraged to eat and to carry on living as normally as possible. Some foods consumed are bagels and eggs. It is believed that the body has reached the end of its journey and only the shell remains that is committed to the ground. Judaism believes that life on this earth has a plan and this is reviewed in the world to come to see what good the person did and what he or she did not.

People who have NDE or near death experience can attest to this fact and it is comforting to know that life on this earth does have meaning and is not just a coincidental accident. This is why it is so important to do good by helping others and animals alike. This is probably what the purpose of life is, to enjoy it, share it and live it in the best way possible.

For those left behind it is not so simple as one finds oneself lost without that other person in their lives. Death is never an easy thing and it is a painful one at that but being as it may a fact of life, one must give oneself the care and attention to grieve in a meaningful way. The Jewish faith understands that it is difficult and continuing with normal life after the fact is not so easy.

For those in mourning this is a comfort too and something that is done without question. Losing someone is hard enough. When this is so following a system of mourning makes it that much easier as it helps one to grieve in the best way possible.

It is not an easy time. Keeping to tradition does help. For any queries or questions, a funeral Rabbi should be consulted.




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