Being patient when trying to get back together with your girlfriend is difficult. There's no question about it. You worry that someone else is going to come along and scoop her up, if that isn't the case already. You worry that she's going to forget about you. You worry that she's going to get used to living her life without you. But even more, you just worry that the window of opportunity is closing so you're frantic to find a solution to your problem and get her back as soon as possible.
There's no sense in pretending that you're doing well. There's no sense in lying to yourself that you're not worried. All of these emotions weigh heavy on your mind as you worry about your relationship. You grow suspicious and angry about the situation that you're in. Did some other guy turn her away from you? Is there someone else that is filling her head with lies? All of these emotions are making you desperate for an answer and being desperate can cause you to make mistakes when trying to get the woman that you love back.
You try to think logically about your breakup and what you should do to get her back. You followed your gut. You tried talking with her and telling her that you're sorry and that things are going to change. You remembered every word that she said when she broke up with you and agreed to change every little thing that you could think of that was bothering her. You would be a changed man and you would be the best boyfriend in the world because of the love that you have for her.
After you discover that trying to talk things through or apologizing didn't get you what you want, you might try something just a little bit different. You might come up with the bright idea that if you were the perfect boyfriend that she would see how much you love her and she would want to come back to you. You could buy her the perfect gift that would touch her heart. You would tell her that you love her and she would fall into your loving arms. If that didn't work then you would beg her to take you back. You would play off of her sense of sympathy and pour your heart out to her while hoping that she would see how important she was to you. Surely, your tears would mean something to her and she would at least try giving your relationship a second chance.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
In order to change your ex-girlfriend's mind you need to understand how women think. The only thing that will get your girlfriend to come back to you is love. So, in order for her to change her mind she has to feel a deep and abiding love for you again. You see, it's more than a decision that she made between the two of you when she left. She told all of her friends and her family that she was breaking up with you. When she comes back to you, she is going to have to explain everything to all of those people why she has changed her mind and the only thing that can make a woman do something like that is a form of female insanity called love.
It certainly is possible to win her back by hitting her emotional hot buttons. It's might not be easy for you but it is rather simple. Like many things in life, it's only when we really care that things get difficult. If you didn't care about her and love her then it would be a piece of cake to win her over. Your heart is involved though. You want things to work out so it's important that you have a well laid out plan that is bomb proof and effective.
There's no sense in pretending that you're doing well. There's no sense in lying to yourself that you're not worried. All of these emotions weigh heavy on your mind as you worry about your relationship. You grow suspicious and angry about the situation that you're in. Did some other guy turn her away from you? Is there someone else that is filling her head with lies? All of these emotions are making you desperate for an answer and being desperate can cause you to make mistakes when trying to get the woman that you love back.
You try to think logically about your breakup and what you should do to get her back. You followed your gut. You tried talking with her and telling her that you're sorry and that things are going to change. You remembered every word that she said when she broke up with you and agreed to change every little thing that you could think of that was bothering her. You would be a changed man and you would be the best boyfriend in the world because of the love that you have for her.
After you discover that trying to talk things through or apologizing didn't get you what you want, you might try something just a little bit different. You might come up with the bright idea that if you were the perfect boyfriend that she would see how much you love her and she would want to come back to you. You could buy her the perfect gift that would touch her heart. You would tell her that you love her and she would fall into your loving arms. If that didn't work then you would beg her to take you back. You would play off of her sense of sympathy and pour your heart out to her while hoping that she would see how important she was to you. Surely, your tears would mean something to her and she would at least try giving your relationship a second chance.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
In order to change your ex-girlfriend's mind you need to understand how women think. The only thing that will get your girlfriend to come back to you is love. So, in order for her to change her mind she has to feel a deep and abiding love for you again. You see, it's more than a decision that she made between the two of you when she left. She told all of her friends and her family that she was breaking up with you. When she comes back to you, she is going to have to explain everything to all of those people why she has changed her mind and the only thing that can make a woman do something like that is a form of female insanity called love.
It certainly is possible to win her back by hitting her emotional hot buttons. It's might not be easy for you but it is rather simple. Like many things in life, it's only when we really care that things get difficult. If you didn't care about her and love her then it would be a piece of cake to win her over. Your heart is involved though. You want things to work out so it's important that you have a well laid out plan that is bomb proof and effective.
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