Tuesday, 5 June 2018

Tips With Jewish Christian Interfaith Wedding

By Michael Lewis


With more and more people wanting to marry interfaith there has become an increasing need for weddings where both religions are practiced. A Jewish Christian interfaith wedding is not uncommon today as many find themselves in a situation where one has to be chosen above the other. It is not easy becoming a Jew and there are many practices and customs that must be practiced throughout the year if one chooses to do so.

Many opt to do both and by doing this pleasing all those involved. Sometimes this is not the case and one partner will agree to have it in a Synagogue. Interfaith Rabbis can be consulted as to the best way to go about this and will have many suggestions for consideration.

Some will even go the extra mile of converting to Judaism. This is a difficult process and one that is not easily achieved but is a route worth considering especially should the couple be thinking about bringing children into this world. Judaism does not look for converts and it is with this in mind that it must be something, a yearning that someone has to do.

Interfaith Rabbis can be called upon to officiate a wedding and so the couple can be assured that they will have an occasion with a Jewish flavor. There are customs that make up the ceremony. One of these is that the bride should circle the groom seven times. Another is the breaking of the glass which commemorates the destruction of both temples in Jerusalem in ancient times.

It all depends to what degree of kashrut the couple would like to have. Kashrut is the term used for those laws that govern dietary laws and this can also be discussed with the Rabbi. This is just one area that must be adhered to in order to become a Jew. Dietary laws are strict, from slaughtering an animal to its consumption.

Other foods that may not be consumed by Jews are seafoods. These include crab, lobster, prawns and shrimps to mention but a few. So it is with this in mind if one is unsure, a Rabbi should be consulted so as not to disappoint those guests that do adhere to Jewish dietary laws. It is a sin to eat anything that is not kosher and the Hebrew word for this is Aveirah.

Aveirah means sin or detracting from coming closer to the Creator. There are many other areas to consider before choosing to convert if this is the case. Another day in the life of a Jew is Yom Kippur. One has to fast for a twenty six hour period where no food or liquids can be consumed.

Some for instance, if they decide to bring children into this world, will celebrate both Chanukah and Christmas at the same time over this period. It can get confusing for children to know and understand where they belong however, liberal Jews and Christians do not mind this and incorporate these festivals in their celebrations each and every year. It really does not have to be that complicated especially if one is not willing to convert.




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